You must have heard about emotional blackmail but you have known it as one definition only. You know that it is something that happens between a manipulative person and a victim. There are always two or more persons involve in it but how about your own emotions blackmailing you?
Are Your Emotions Blackmailing You? - The Contents
How about that which you have created and nourished blackmailing you?
It may sound weird to you but this is the truth which many of you don’t ever realize. You go on saying that other people are blackmailing certain persons emotionally but you never realized that your own thoughts and your own emotions are blackmailing you and that also very often.
If you pay attention to what is happening within you, you will realize many things. The truth is that everything that is happening to you is due to your own thoughts, emotions and actions. So, you don’t have the right to make any other person responsible for whatever is happening to you. You don’t have the right to blame others for the difficulties or sufferings that you have.
So, this is why before saying anything or blaming anyone, observe yourself and find out how you have created the problem within you. Find out how you have nourished that problem too before it has erupted like a volcano. You already know the damage that a volcano causes when it is erupted, isn’t it? So, the same damage that you are causing is not only to others but also to yourself. Do you find it right?
Just realize that when a person blackmail another person emotionally, how that person suffer due to that. In fact, now the case is more complicated as it is your own thoughts and emotions which are blackmailing you. It is more complicated because you have always taken them to be the best guide to you. So, whatever they tell you, you think of that to be true.
Not only that, you also go on protecting both your thoughts and your emotions. This is because whenever someone tells you that either your thoughts or your emotions are not true, you become angry and you argue a lot.
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