What Are The Root Causes Of Low Self-Esteem?

You must surely be asking yourself this question: 'Why my self-esteem is so low? So, are you upset because you have low self-esteem? Do you want to know what are the root causes of low self-esteem? It's obvious that you will want to know what are the symptoms of low self-esteem too, right?

If you have low self-esteem then you must be wondering what are the root causes of low self-esteem which are making your life a hell. Low self-esteem is that which can ruin your life and bring a lot of illnesses in you if you don't fix them the soonest possible. 

If you are among those who have low self-esteem and don't know to whom to share your problems, then don't worry you will get your solution here. Low self-esteem is an inner problem which cannot be healed by medicines. It needs inner cleansing and inner growth and for that you will need to work on yourself.

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What Are The Root Causes Of Low Self-Esteem? - Know The Truth Here

There are many root causes of low self-esteem such as the following:

1. Negative thoughts. You attract and create a lot of negative thoughts. Not only that, you also get yourself busy with too many negative self-talks. You think that you have a friend within yourself who can talk to you and from whom you can take advice from. As you find that on the outer level you have enemies only, then your best friend is that which is in your mind. You go on talking to it and you can also hear it's answers too. You get the wrong advises and thus, you go on being more fearful. You are in hell and you continue on going deep into that hell.
2. Being with the wrong people. When awareness is lacking in you, you don't realize whom you are considering as your friends. You are mostly friendly with those who are negative in their aims, thoughts and actions.
3. The feeling of inferiority. You feel inferior most of the time because you are not aware about what your capabilities are. You are not aware about how strong you are. You also feel inferior when you are rejected either by loved ones or by other people. Another way where you feel inferior is when people go on blaming you when you are not even at fault.
4. Weaknesses. You have the habit of showing that you are weak by letting other people dominate or blackmail you. It starts with bullying in school. You let those students do whatever they want with you as you feel you are alone and weak. You feel that you cannot confront them and thus you go on building a small home for yourself within in which you think that you can be safe but in reality you are not. Another weakness of yours come from family members and also at your workplace. You feel that if they are superior then whatever they say is right. So, you just surrender yourself to all the bad actions. By so doing, you are the one who suffer the most. 
5. Don't have the capacity to take your own responsibility. You feel that you don't have any strength left in you so you can't take your own responsibility. You go on asking advises from the wrong people and thus, go on doing wrong actions. The fact is that you are there to your own downfall yet you can't even realize it.
6. Can't be independent. For you to be independent means to be in a hell. You always want to be with those who can tell you what to do thus you go on choosing the wrong people to be your friends. You can't even take a decision of your own life. You either depend on your own negative thoughts or on what you get from those who are negative.
7. Lack of goals. You don't even know what you can do. This way, you are not determined to do anything. So, you don't have goals. For you, you can't do anything as you are weak. This is a thought that you have nourished in you that you are weak. You go on feeding it and thus, you want to stay in it only.
8. Lack of confidence. You can't trust anyone not even yourself. The main problem here is that you can't trust yourself. You think that you are too weak to trust yourself. You think that you are not worth of being trust too.
9. Comparison. You compare yourself to others and think that you are not beautiful or you have a horrible body. This makes you feel ashamed of yourself. You also compare yourself with people who are successful in their married life or even in their professional life. This is because you lack maturity. 
10. Wrong guidance. In life, you will get so many wrong guidance not only in the outer level but also in the inner level. From the outer level you can get the wrong guidance from the teachers, family members, friends and so on. From the inner level, you get the wrong guidance from your own thoughts and emotions.
11. Negative influence. When you are weak, then you go on looking for those who are in the same state as yours. So, you get influenced easily by them. So, you too are in the race of negative vibes. You go on doing things that you didn't do before just because your friends are doing it. You don't even realize whether these things are right or wrong.
12. Negative experiences. Due to negative experiences you had in your childhood, even at school, at home and at workplace, you go on carrying them along with you wherever you go. These negative experiences create hate in you. You start hating yourself. This is because you have tolerated a lot of things. People have shown their physical powers on you. They have also shown their mental and emotional powers on you. So, this way, you felt yourself too weak in order to react. You felt that you don't have that strength to go against them.

How To Get Rid Of Low Self-Esteem

So, as you can see there are many root causes of low-esteem and the fact is that there is only one solution to boost it. You don't need to take medicines for that. I know some people take a lot of medicines for anxiety, lack of sleep, stress and so on. But know that these are not illnesses, so why do you need to take medicines? 

The fact is that they are there because of your mind only. You create and attract so many thoughts and emotions and they are the ones that bring those so called illnesses in you. Know that they are not going to get healed by medicines as the real treatment is healing with Cosmic Energy.

The main problem with people is that they find only one solution for every inner problem they get and that is medicine. They are not even aware that the greatest medicine is that which has created them, which has given them this form, which has given them all the inner powers which a human being must have.

The greatest healer is there within you. You just need to accept and absorb it as much as you can. What is stopping you to absorb Cosmic Energy, the one which has given you life? What is your problem in making it the priority of your life? If the giver of life is taken for granted, then this is what will happen with you always. You will find yourself only in problems and your whole life will be a hell only.

So, start as from now and say 'No' to low self-esteem. You must say 'Yes' to improve yourself and make yourself more strong. Free yourself from all that are imprisoning you.

The causes of low self-esteem is more frequent in adults and this is why it is very important for them to know how to boost their self-esteem and confidence. If you have any question or query about this topic, then feel free to add it in the comment section below.

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