I have already written about how you can recognize your beliefs and get rid of them but what if in the now your beliefs are stopping you from prospering, from being successful or from seizing an opportunity which is very important for you?
What if in the now you have to recognize your beliefs and overcome them? What should you do? Obviously, you need an instant remedy, isn’t it?
You don’t want to miss that great opportunity as you want to be successful in life. So, here you will find what you have to do in such situations.
You Can Recognize Your Beliefs And Overcome Them In The Now
Yes, you can do it. It’s not that difficult as you may think. It’s just that you need to take control of yourself and do what you need to do.
Here is an example for you of how you can recognize your beliefs and overcome them in the now:
Let say, you were busy with your tasks when your phone rings. When you pick up the phone, you recognize the voice of your boss and he asks you to come and meet him in his office. You don’t know what is going to happen there.
You are a bit worried by saying to yourself:
‘What if I have done something wrong which I am not aware of and my boss has found out about that?’
‘What if he is going to scold or even give me a warning about that?’
Then you think again while going to his office:
‘What if he gives me more tasks and I am unable to do them as I have already a lot to do?’
What you are doing here is that you go on assuming so many things and the fact is that all of them are negative.
As you come near the office of your boss, your heart is beating at its highest speed. What you have done here is that you have put yourself in a very difficult situation even when you don’t know why your boss has asked you to come and meet him.
You knock at the door and you heard his sharp voice telling you to enter his office. There, you find him sitting with a pile of papers and files on his table. He was busy reading a letter.
You were afraid and finally, you were asked to sit down. You were in such a position that anything could have happened to you. Your blood pressure could have become higher. You could have fainted.
So, who created this situation?
Is it your boss or you?
I must say that you are a good story writer and a good actor too. This is because you are the one who writes your own story and that also in your mind which doesn’t need any computer or even a pen and a piece of paper and finally, you are the one who acts too.
But, what you did wrong here is that without knowing about your future, you have taken a wrong action which has caused you to become tense, afraid and you happen to create high blood pressure in you.
Now, your boss hasn’t told you anything yet and you are in such a situation. What if he really tells you that you have done something wrong? Your BP is already high. You created that high BP before entering his office.
Now, if really you made a mistake and if he gives you a warning, what is going to happen to you? Definitely, after a high BP, you have the possibility to get a heart attack or any other killing illness.
So, recognize what you did since when your boss asked you to come and meet him in his office until you sat before him. Watch out how this story which you created in your mind has brought its fruits by making you sick and fearful.
This story which was written by you in only 2 minutes has turned your life upside down, not only for these 2 minutes but it will also make you remain in that state for a longer period of time.
You happen to live a fearful moment in these 2 minutes which will go deep within you, leaving a scar which is going to take long enough before it disappears.
Remember, before that, you were busy with your tasks and you were fine. It’s only the story that you created that has put you in such a state.
It is here that you need to recognize that your beliefs have put you in such a difficult situation where you could have even lost your life.
These beliefs are:
• Your belief in your mind.
• Your belief in the negative thoughts that you have created.
• Your belief in the fear that you have created.
• The belief in the whole story that you have created.
• The belief in the doubt that you have about yourself.
• The belief of being weak.
In fact, you have strengthened your beliefs so much that you were about to lose your life with high blood pressure and heart attack.
What if it was about a great opportunity that your boss wanted to discuss about with you?
When you are in front of him and he is saying about it, then you won’t be able to give the right answer or even take the right decision because you are already settled in the beliefs that you just created. Your beliefs have made you a weak and tense person.
By seeing you in this state, your boss will prefer to give that opportunity to your colleague or to someone who is stronger enough.
So, here, you are not only missing a great opportunity but you are also settled with the beliefs that are continuously making you weaker.
This is how you continuously create your own pitfalls. This is how you continuously make yourself unlucky.
People say that you must be lucky enough in order to get a great opportunity in life or even be successful in life but I say that you must be stronger enough, mentally, physically and emotionally in order to be successful in whatever you do. Your real eyes must be opened in order to see the opportunities and seize them.
The fact is that it’s not about luck. It’s about the energy that you have transformed into luck energy and that’s why you are strong, powerful and successful.
These are the things that most people do. They just think negatively about themselves. They just assume what is going to happen.
So, what is the solution here?
How To Overcome The Beliefs That You Have Created
Now, that I have related to you the whole story and if you come to understand it well, I’m sure that when next time, you happen to be in a similar situation, you won’t panic.
Make sure that you never assume anything before you come face to face with it. Create space within you instead.
So, what should you do in such a situation?
Make your life simple.
Here is what you need to do:
• You get a call from your boss to come and meet him in his office.
• You just go to his office without assuming anything. This is because if you don’t assume anything, there won’t be any negative thoughts and not even fear in you.
• You go and meet him. As you sit waiting for him to say what he has to say, just stay still and wait. Here also don’t assume anything. Wait and listen to what he has to say to you.
• If really you have made a mistake, you just accept it and tell him that you will be careful next time. Don’t make it an issue. Just accept it and come out of his office undisturbed.
• Now that you know that you made a mistake, so what? Everyone makes mistakes. What you need to do is to be totally aware when you do any task next time and in fact, you need to be totally aware always.
• Here, it just needs you to correct your mistake. It doesn’t need you to create fear or even negative thoughts and negative emotions in you. It doesn’t need you to assume anything.
It is so simple but you are the one who complicates your life only because you go as per your beliefs.
So, it’s not hard to overcome your beliefs. You just need to take control of yourself and stop assuming anything.
Whatever is going to happen in the future, you need not get worried about that in the now. These worries are created by your mind, thoughts, emotions, assumptions and beliefs.
In the now, you must always be empty from within and concentrate and focus totally on what you are doing.
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